Messy hair

I can't make my hair do what I want it to. I tell it to stay straight, and it becomes puffy. I tell it to be wavy, and that's when it decides to be straight. I can't win the battle, and it's driving me crazy.

It may have to do with the fact that I sometimes sleep on damp hair. It's just that I always take a shower at night, and sometimes I fall asleep before it can completely dry. I don't blow dry my hair at night because: a) it's loud and b) I have oily hair, and the heat just makes me sweat more. I end up with crazy bed hair that cannot be combed.

I have gotten my hair to be less greasy in the last few days. It's not so oily that you can fry an egg on it anymore. I used a really good clarifying shampoo, and it does the job well. My hair is only slightly greasy at the end of the night. I don't use a conditioner anymore though, and my hair is mostly in tangles these day. I am not suppose to brush my hair often (it causes your scalp to be more oily), so I am at a lost on what to do.

Maybe I will just accept my faith as the girl with messy hair. I should be used to it by now, but the thing is... I want my hair to look normal.