Friday, August 14, 2009

Hang's Sis-mance

Why do they have a word for bromance, but not a sismance? Is it just natural that when girls are really close, they tend to act a certain way?

I for one love Frances. She's my best friend, and I can't imagine my life without her, nor am I afraid to share that information with the world. She knows I love her, and I guess so does the rest of the world.

But is that strange? We've always had a strong bond, and could easily relate to each other. It's hard not to because we basically grew up together. We got used to taking naps together, stroking each other's arms, and praising each other. I also thought that is was perfectly normal behavior. Doesn't everyone do that?

I love all my friends, and am not afraid to show that. When we hang out, I claim we are on dates. I tell them I love them, and I'll compliment them if I see something nice. Isn't that what all girlfriends do? Isn't it the social norm?

I believe friends are important, and that you need them in your life. They are the voice of reason, the shoulder to cry on, and they make life better by being in yours.

I understand the bond of bromance and sismance, but can friends of the opposite sex be the best of friends?

I know that girls and guys can be good friends, but I also believe that when a guy and girl are best of friends, it leads to complications. Someone (or both) always develop feelings for the other person. It's natural that you would fall for your best friend when you share such a close bond. You basically know each other already, and obviously care for each other. I don't think it can be helped.

Being in love with your best friend is always a very difficult position. You're basically stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you risk your relationship or always wonder what could of been? Wow, thinking about gave me a headache, but good thing I am not in this kind of situation.(Don't worry Frances, I'm not in that kind of love with you even though I love you dearly.)

I will end this post with-

The only kind of boat you can't sink is... friendship.

I forgot where I heard this line, but it always makes me laugh. 

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